Your Go-To Guide for Moving Aging Parents, From NASMM President Marty Stevens-Heebner

When it comes to supporting older adults and their families through life’s toughest transitions, Marty Stevens-Heebner is a name you can trust. As President of the National Association of Senior & Specialty Move Managers (NASMM), CEO of AgeWise Alliance and Clear Home Solutions, and a Certified Senior Move Manager, Marty brings more than a decade of hands-on experience helping families navigate the delicate challenges of downsizing, relocating, and preserving cherished legacies.

She’s seen it all—from decades-old Tupperware collections to emotionally charged family heirlooms—and understands how overwhelming it can be to untangle the memories and emotions tied to “stuff.”

Marty is bringing her years of professional expertise straight to your bookshelf with her latest book, How to Move Your Parents (and Still Be on Speaking Terms). This isn’t just a moving guide—it’s a lifeline for families facing the tender chaos of transitioning aging parents with compassion, clarity, and a touch of humor.

“Marty doesn’t just give you a to-do list (though the checklists are fantastic). She walks you through the even more important emotional side of things, too -- how to manage family dynamics, make tough decisions, and avoid common pitfalls that turn a move into a meltdown.” Matt Paxton, Best-selling author & Emmy-nominated host of Filthy Fortunes and HOARDERS

Packed with real-life stories, sanity-saving checklists, and proven strategies for navigating emotional landmines, Marty’s guide offers a steady hand through the emotional challenges—helping you protect your sanity and your relationships.

A Guide Built from Real Life: Marty’s Personal Experience with Senior Move Management and Downsizing

If you haven’t read our previous blog, Marty has had many real life experiences moving seniors, and a real close-to-home experience. Years ago, back in her hometown of Buffalo, New York, she once planted maple seeds with her father in their backyard. Today, those towering trees still stand guard over her childhood memories. After her father passed away, Marty found herself sifting through his home, uncovering forgotten treasures—poignant keepsakes like his handmade arrows, and maddening clutter like over 50 years of tax returns.

That experience was a profound reminder of how deeply entangled love, memories, and belongings can become.

Marty’s personal journey caring for her 90-year-old father and 88-year-old aunt gave her a front-row seat to the challenges so many families face. Fortunately, her years of organizing and inventorying items in both her life and business became invaluable as she helped her loved ones navigate this complex transition.

It’s this blend of personal empathy and professional know-how that makes Marty’s guidance so impactful—and why How to Move Your Parents (and Still Be on Speaking Terms) is a must-read for anyone facing a similar journey.

Who Is Marty Stevens-Heebner?

This isn’t her first time lighting the way. Marty’s entire career has been devoted to helping families tackle the practical and emotional complexities of aging, downsizing, and legacy planning. As the founder of Clear Home Solutions, she’s helped thousands of clients make compassionate and confident decisions during life’s most delicate transitions. Whether moving from a home with a lifetime of memories, estate sales, or modifying your space so it’s safe and comfortable, the process can seem insurmountable, and even depressing.

She discovered a senior move can be uplifting rather than heartbreaking.

Guiding her clients through their emotions and helping them conserve a lifetime’s worth of treasures is what she loves most about her work. 

Over time, Marty identified a service gap: there wasn’t one convenient, online community catering specifically to the service needs of her older clients and their families.

In 2024, Marty has a vision: AgeWise Alliance

Marty combined her personal experience, 12 years of managing moves for thousands of families, countless senior services certifications, and a powerful passion for supporting families and their older loved ones to thrive through AgeWise Alliance.

Through AgeWise Alliance, seniors and their families gain direct access to its Circle of Professionals—experts who share Marty’s dedication to compassionate, thoughtful service. These specialists are carefully vetted to ensure they provide the same level of care, respect, and understanding that Marty has built her reputation on.

Older adults have spent a lifetime giving so much to others—they deserve supportive solutions and expert guidance that honor their wishes and open the door to new possibilities. AgeWise Alliance makes that possible for families in Los Angeles, Ventura, and Orange Counties.

And now, through her new book, she’s reaching families everywhere — offering them practical advice, heartfelt encouragement, and just the right touch of humor to tackle this transition with grace and love.

Where to Find Marty’s Book:

Marty’s compassionate, sanity-saving guide — How to Move Your Parents (and Still Be on Speaking Terms) — is available now on Amazon! Grab your copy today and let Marty’s experience and understanding help you navigate one of life’s most tender transitions with confidence, care, and maybe even a few laughs along the way.

Stay Connected for More

Be sure to follow AgeWise Alliance and Clear Home Solutions on social media for behind-the-scenes peeks, bonus insights, updates about the book, and more heartfelt resources to support you and your loved ones every step of the way.

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What Others are Saying:

“If you're dreading the day you'll have to move your folks or loved ones, this book is for you. Even if you're DELIGHTED about moving your loved ones and feel like you're an organized queen (or king), this book is for you. As someone who enjoys moving and has personally done 20+ moves throughout my life, this book is a GOLD MINE of valuable advice -- from all the checklists that'll save your sanity to the shocking discoveries you may find on page 141 that could end up funding the entire move. Moving yourself is one thing, but moving someone else is a whole other beast. Do yourself a favor and take care of your future self and your loved ones by getting (AND READING) this book!” Eden G.

"What an amazing resource this is! I wish I had it when I needed to clean out my mother’s apartment after moving her to my house - and when my family moved from our house of 30 years to a new home. All of this information in one place is incredible! So many tips inside each chapter and checklists to help you every step of the process. Helping your parents move or downsize can often feel daunting, leaving you overwhelmed and unsure where to begin. Thankfully, Marty-Stevens Heebner’s insightful book, ‘How to Move Your Parents (and still be on speaking terms)’, is here to transform that anxiety into empowerment.  In each chapter, you’ll find practical advice, helpful Moving Moments, Inside Scoop, Smart Move Tips, and meticulously crafted worksheets. With compassion and expertise, Marty shares this valuable information while also recognizing the emotional journey that often comes with the challenges of a physical move.  If you’re facing the challenge of helping your parents with a move and wondering, “How am I ever going to manage this?!” let ‘How to Move Your Parents (and still be on speaking terms)’ be your trusted companion on this journey. It’s the guidance you need to navigate this experience without losing your mind!” Rosanne Corcoran - Podcast Host, Daughterhood

Stay tuned as we break down more of the book’s must-read chapters, expert advice, and heartfelt stories in this blog series.

If you're facing the impossible-seeming task of moving your parents, Marty’s here to remind you:

•  You can get through this.

•  You can preserve your sanity.

•  And yes—you can still be on speaking terms afterward.

**VIDEO of release

Have you ever helped a loved one move, relocate, or age in place?

• Yes, I’ve done this many times.
• Yes, I’ve done this once.
• I’m in the middle of it now.
• Not yet, but I know it’s coming.

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About Marty Stevens-Heebner

Marty Stevens-Heebner, President of NASMM and founder of AgeWise Alliance, brings over 12 years of experience supporting older adults and their families through life's toughest transitions. She recently released her compassionate, game-changing guide, How to Move Your Parents (and Still Be on Speaking Terms)—a must-have resource packed with real-life stories and expert wisdom. As a certified senior services professional, Marty combines personal insight with in-depth industry knowledge to help families navigate the challenges of downsizing, relocation, and aging with clarity and care. 

Through AgeWise Alliance, she connects families to experienced and trusted professionals who truly understand the emotional and logistical complexities of later-life moves. Marty and her team continue to advocate for seniors throughout Southern California—ensuring they have access to the respectful, skilled support they deserve.

About AgeWise Alliance

AgeWise Alliance provides the answers and professionals that older adults and their families need to navigate the challenges of later life. From finding trusted professionals in legal, caregiving, and financial planning to offering practical resources and expert advice on senior living communities and insurance, we make the later life shift easier for everyone.

Visit AgeWiseAlliance.com or follow us on Instagram at @agewisealliance to learn more about how we can support you and your loved ones.